End of Year

My year was filled with a lot of love.

I got to see my son one on one for the first time in 3 1/2 years. This was the most heart felt, overwhelming encounter. I missed my son so much and it meant everything to me to be able to look into his eyes, hold him and talk to him.

The birth of my first grandson was a life changing experience. I organized a baby shower, went to the OB appointments and answered many questions my daughter had as her mind got the best of her.
I said that I did not want to be in the birthing room, but I did witness the entire birth.

Being a Woman of God gives me duties and responsibilities. I felt less than when I did not complete my studies as planned in 2013. Not to mean that I did nothing, it means that I was needed elsewhere as instructed by God. You know the term "subject to change." I had to adjust to the fact that my plan was not God's plan. It all worked out and my studies have resume.

I have learned that I must choose by battles carefully. The enemy will attack to steal, killing and destroy. Everyone will not receive you when it comes to the Word of God. Do not debate with unbelievers, it will only escalate and get out of control. As a Christian I MUST STAY IN CONTROL with God's help.

My younger daughter has blossomed into this beautiful young girl. At the age of 16, she loves the Lord and is focused on her future about attending college. Dreams and admiration's keeps her fueled with hope. I admire her determination when she sets her mind on something. She is my star that shines the brightest at night in the sky.

I had a financial makeover this past year and I acquired some material items, but what really matters is that I am obedient to God's Word and take care of my financial commitments.

Pay to all what is owed to them: taxes to whom taxes are owed, revenue to whom revenue is owed, respect to whom respect is owed, honor to whom honor is owed. (Romans 13:7)

My uncle died this year and I really miss him. R.I.P. Uncle Gene.

These are some of the things that made an impact on me this year. Life is good and I have no complaints. You learn as you go and if you don't learn anything , you're not living.

Be good to yourself in 2014. Don't sweat the small stuff and always, always put God first.

Resolution

Are you like most people who make resolutions at the end of each year? Well, I am also. If you say you are not one of those people ...you are lying.
Some where in your life you are willing or needing to make a change. You will try and some will succeed, some will not.
Don't feel defeated if you do not reach your goal or accomplish what you set out to do. Life goes on, it's not the end of the world and it's not worth feeling bad about.

Set realistic expectations for yourself and try not to commit to something just because someone else is doing it.
See yourself where you want to be and do not dwell in negativity.
Fasting and prayer is needed when we are needing a change in our lives. I'm talking a permanent, "let's bury it ALL kind of change."

And he said to them, This kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting. (Mark 9:29)

Get your mind right and make a change.

Fear Not

 God works in us to help us confront our fears and develop strength.

He promises to be our light in the darkness and our strength (Psalm 21:1).

He reminds us not to be dismayed, because he will help us and hold us (Isaiah 41:10).

He tells us to be of good courage because he will never leave nor forsake us (Deuteronomy 31:6).

He exhorts us to be strong and courageous (Joshua 1:6).

He delivers us from our troubles and doubts and fears so that we may taste and see his goodness (Psalm 34).

God’s power is real. It’s an undeniable force, and it lives in us. As we fix our eyes on him, we see his love, we taste his power, which is food for the soul. It helps us to grow stronger and to rise above  any fear holding us back.

7 Promises of God

1. He has promised to supply every need we have. Phillipians 4:19 says: But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.  What type of need do you have? God has Promised  to supply Every need. This would include food, clothing, shelter, companionship, love, and salvation thru Jesus Christ.
2. God has promised that His grace is sufficient for us. 2 Corinthians 12:9 says: My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. In fact God has made Promise for salvation by His grace through faith. Do you have faith?  We must possess faith so we can have access into the grace of God.
3. God has promised that His children will not be overtaken with temptation. I don’t want to be overtaken by temptation…Do you?  I Corinthians 10:13 says: no temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but god is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.  God assures us that a way of escape will be provided.
4. God has promised us victory over death. He first resurrected Jesus by way of assuring our resurrection. I Corinthians 15:3,4 says Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures, and that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures.  Thanks be to God, which gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
5. God has promised that all things work together for good to those who love and serve Him faithfully (Romans 8:28). It may be difficult for us to see and understand how this is accomplished at times. When we may be going through a situation of sorrow or pain and may not know the words to pray. Believe that every detail in our lives of love for God is worked into something good. How many of you believe that ? God has promised it, and He will deliver.
6. God has promised that those who believe in Jesus and are baptized for the forgiveness of sins will be saved. and Acts 2:38). Turn to God and be baptized, each of you, in the name of Jesus Christ, so your sins are forgiven. Receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. Who wants their sins forgiven? Who wants to receive the gift of the Holy Spirt?
7. God has promised His people eternal life  John 10:27 says:  My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.  Eternal Life is gods ultimate promise to us.  Live so that the promises of God will be yours.

I Believe

"Living your life for God is a lot easier than living for the devil."~CW

I can remember when my life was a mess, but when I ask God to release me from the agony and pain that I was in.....He did.

My life is a miracle, because I was led out of darkness and my life was spared.

When you are in such distress no one can help you BUT GOD.

Believe that if you cry out to God, He will hear your voice.

I'm glad he heard mine. Thank you God.

10Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. 11Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. 12For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places. 13Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.14Stand therefore, having girded your waist with truth, having put on the breastplate of righteousness, 15and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; 16above all, taking the shield of faith with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one. 17And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; 18praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints,” (Eph. 6:10-18)

Salvation Through Jesus Christ.

1. God's Purpose...Peace and Life

God loves you and wants you to know Him so He can fill you with peace and give you real life -- forever. The Bible says:: Because of our Lord Jesus Christ, we live at peace with God (Romans 5:1) God loved the people of this world so much that He gave His only son, so that everyone who has faith in Him will have eternal life and never die (John 3:16). Jesus said: "I came so that everyone would have life, and have it in its fullest" (John 10:10). Since God planned for us to have peace and real life right now, why are so many people hurting or angry inside?

2. Our Problem...Separation From God

God created us in His own image so we can know Him personally and have a joy-filled life. He did not make us as robots to automatically love and obey Him, but gave us a will and a freedom of choice. Since the beginning of time, we have chosen to disobey God and go our own willful way. We still make this choice today. This results in separation from God and ends in misery. The Bible says: All of us have sinned and fallen short of God's holiness (Romans 3:23). The result of unforgiven sin is death. But God's gift is eternal life given by Jesus Christ our Lord (Romans 6:23). The Bible says that disobeying God results in being separated from Him. Our attempts can never unite us with God. Through the ages, people have tried many ways to bridge this gap and reach God -- without success. The Bible says: Adam sinned, and that sin brought death into the world. Now everyone has sinned, and so everyone must die (Romans 5:12). You may think you are on the right road and still end up dead (Proverbs 14:12). There is only one way to reach God.

3. God's Remedy...The Cross

Jesus Christ is the only answer to this problem. He is the only One who can bring us back to God. He died on the Cross and rose from the grave, paying the penalty for our sin and bridging the gap between God and people. The Bible says: There is only one God, and Christ Jesus is the only one who can bring us to God (1 Timothy 2:5). Christ died once for our sins. An innocent person died for those who are guilty. Christ did this to bring you to God (1 Peter 3:18). But God showed how much He loved us by having Christ die for us, even though we were sinful (Romans 5:8). God has provided the only way -- we must make the choice.

4. Our Response...Give Ourselves to Christ

We must trust Jesus Christ to forgive our sins and determine to obey Him for the rest of our lives. That way we can know God and find peace again. The Bible says: So you will be saved, if you honestly say, Jesus is Lord, and if you believe with all your heart that God raised Him from death. God will accept you and save you, if you truly believe this (Romans 10:9-10). Is there any good reason why you cannot turn your life over to Jesus Christ right now? How to give your life to Christ: 1. Admit you are a sinner and need forgiveness. 2. Believe that Jesus Christ died for you on the Cross and rose from the grave. 3. Through prayer, confess that Jesus Christ is the only way to God and commit to live for Him for the rest of your life.

Is It Really Unfair?

When we find ourselves in an uncomfortable situation we fail to reflect on how we got to that point.

Our first thought is to possibly blame others for our messes. The other is just plain denial.

Is it unfair that the way others may view us or treat us based on our behavior.

Disobedience brings on a lot of weight. Our actions have consequences and we must be ready to deal with that.

NOT living in the Will of God will put your fate in a state of unfairness. It's not fair that people talk to you that way. It's not fair that your spouse won't listen to you. It's not unfair that you feel under attack all of the time and it's not even your fault.

You can not  purge the sin, because we don't know how to recognize to prepare for our spiritual wholeness in the Lord.

This is the time to talk to God. Your relationship with God will see you through and condition your mind to be able to out think the enemy.

So know this, that if you are one to claim unfairness you need to understand how you got yourself in a situation to have this afflicted on you in the first place. Be realistic about your actions and learn from your mistakes.

God is Love, Trust in Him.

Living Life

Life is a beautiful thing,

Learn to embrace it.

Make everyday a day of happiness.

You must forget your faults and forgive others for theirs.

Being Godlike is not impossible.

Jesus dying on the cross for our sins and rising again is impossible.

What you give out in the universe is what you will get back.

Your Faith is bigger than your circumstances.

Never forgetting your humble beginning as a new creature.

Let God be first in all you do.

Let God's light shine in your life daily.

Righteousness Will Prevail

God always knows what you need and when you need it.

This scripture is so critical to understanding, receiving, and walking in God' internal grace.

No matter what the carnal man may do in the short term in an attempt to win, the steps of the righteous and patient believer will always prevail.

I thank and praise God for being real in my life and prevailing as a concurrer in my life regardless of the short term position. He will alway prevail and the righteous man will win in the end.

Fruit of the Spirit

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. ~Galatians 5:22-23

Your spirit is renewed by possessing and exercising each fruit as stated in scripture from Galatians.

We know that God is Love and no matter what the sin is we must show love to our neighbor. Hate is not an option. Yes, we may hate the sin that has taken over that person, but we don't hate that person.

Having Joy is a  personal choice. Starting with a positive attitude, seeking happiness and good fortune.

I found that when you surrender all to God that when Peace begins. A calmness takes over no more anxiety or stress.

Being patient for a season  in spite of trouble. Long suffering is a true test of patience. But enduring this season is what makes us strong, powerful and insightful.

Show Gentleness in your talk and attitude no matter what the situation is.

Goodness comes with a renewed mind of a new way of thinking, with a desire of being positive. No more stinkin' thinkin'.

Believing and having Faith in God. Fear nothing.

Being humble is a good trait to expose when we are seeking an answer from God. A disposition of Meekness is from the heart.

Don't lose yourself regarding worldly things. Much temptation requires Temperance. Having control of your actions and thoughts. Not being led by those thing which are not of God.

Note: These fruits are a reminder of how to be Godlike.  I am thankful to be able to embrace and apply this to my life. God knows we all need help and help is in the scriptures.

"I HAVE A DREAM'

Even though this speech took place fifty years ago, it still holds reference to what is going on in the world today. Martin Luther King, Jr. spread love with his civil rights stand for all. Unfortunately, the mentality of many in 1962 paralyzed the process of this nation. I am thankful like a lot of Americans that the accomplishments of this nation for our families are better, but we still have work to do.
Thank you, Martin Luther King, Jr. for paving the way and never letting us forget that the love of God gave you the will to do what was right. The ultimate sacrifice was your life, a life filled with determination, passion, spirit and a dream. ~CW

Guidance

 

Today I carry these words with me as a prayer for guidance. From the hymn “I Am a Child of God,” by Naomi W. Randall: “Lead me, guide me, walk beside me, help me find the way.”

I know the spirit of God is with me, and I watch as the path ahead unfolds—one step, one insight, one turn at a time. Knowing I am never alone in my decisions, I feel adventurous and confident.
What dreams are mine to fulfill? How can I contribute to the greater good?

 Divinely directed and inspired, I dust off aspirations I might have previously laid aside and ask Spirit to lead and guide me to fulfillment. In every endeavor, I call on the spirit of God to help me find the way.
 

This is God, our God forever and ever. He will be our guide forever.~Psalm 48:14

Pray for Your Children

Seven Things to Pray for Your Children

 

[Download a print-version of “7 Things to Pray for My Children”]
Some years back a good friend shared with me seven Scripture texts that he and his wife prayed for their two daughters from the time they were infants. The girls are now grown. And it’s beautiful to see how God has (and still is) answering the faithful, specific prayers of faith-filled parents in the lives of these young, godly women.
I have frequently used these prayers when praying for my children too. And I commend them to you (see below).
But, of course, prayers are not magic spells. It’s not a matter of just saying the right things and our children will be blessed with success.
Some parents earnestly pray and their children become a gifted leaders or scholars or musicians or athletes. Others earnestly pray and their children develop a serious disability or disease or wander through a prodigal wilderness or just struggle more than others socially or academically or athletically. And the truth is, God is answering all these parents’ prayers, but for very different purposes.
That’s why Scriptures like John 9:1–3 are in the Bible. We must not too quickly assess God’s purposes because they can be opposite of our perceptions. God measures success differently than we do, which is why he often answers our prayers in ways we don’t expect.
So pray for your children. Jesus promises us that if we ask, seek, and knock the Father will give us good in return (Luke 11:9-13), even if the good isn't apparent for 40 years. And because Jesus regularly asked those who came to him, “What do you want me to do for you?” (Mark 10:51), we know that he wants us to be specific with our requests.
So, here are seven helpful, specific things to pray for your children:
1. That Jesus will call them and no one will hinder them from coming.

Then children were brought to him that he might lay his hands on them and pray. The disciples rebuked the people, but Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” And he laid his hands on them and went away. (Matthew 19:13–15)

2. That they will respond in faith to Jesus’s faithful, persistent call.

The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance. (2 Peter 3:9)

3. That they will experience sanctification through the transforming work of the Holy Spirit and will increasingly desire to fulfill the greatest commandments.

And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” (Matthew 22:37-39)

4. That they will not be unequally yoked in intimate relationships, especially marriage.

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14)

5. That their thoughts will be pure.

Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. (Philippians 4:8)

6. That their hearts will be stirred to give generously to the Lord’s work.

All the men and women, the people of Israel, whose heart moved them to bring anything for the work that the Lord had commanded by Moses to be done brought it as a freewill offering to the Lord. (Exodus 35:29)

7. That when the time is right, they will GO!

And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:18-20)

Young Black Men

Young black men in America beware of the stereotype that leads to profiling of dark skin males.

Society has painted a picture of our young black men as lazy and criminals.

Young black men should be able to live and frequent wherever they desire. Unfortunately some don't want you to be apart of their community, schools, or churches.

Education is the key. Educate yourselves about laws, civil rights, politics and social economics.

Make sure the way you want to be perceived reflects your appearance. I know you can wear what you want, but all dress should be appropriate. (Yes pull those pants up)

Association is everything. By the age of 18 hanging out with friends will be over. Just because you  have a white girlfriend doesn't mean you are not viewed as a NIGGER. And don't get it twisted, you will be snitched on if something should go down.

Get involved in YOUR community and help the next little black boy growing up in this cruel world.

The truth will only be told by those effected by racism. We are Black Americans living in White America.

It's the 21st century and lynching is  against the law, but we  are still lynched by INJUSTICE.

Gratitude

 

I give thanks for all of life’s blessings.

A wise person once said that gratitude is the memory of the heart. My memories enrich my life as the days and years go by. I recall treasured memories that continue to enrich my soul.

I choose to review my memory bank with gratitude. Recalling the kindness of others brings a smile to my face and lifts my spirits. I appreciate the people who have shared this life with me. My memories of good times and good people reveal the light of Spirit that shines unceasingly on us all.

As I look back with gratitude for the loved ones and opportunities that have brought me great joy and fulfillment, I also enjoy the fullness of this present moment. Right now, I am making memories for the years to come.
 

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.—Matthew 6:21

Uncle Gene

U- unconditional love
N- never saying "no"
C- charming
L- lasting laughter
E- encouraging
 
G- generous
E- ego friendly
N- negotiator
E- earnest
 
 
I'm praying that God gives you comfort that you need. I know you probably would say, "It's alright, I'm fine." As I type this tears are rolling from my eyes. You can believe with these tears I will still pray prayers to God for you Uncle Gene. 
 
I love you!
 

Show Love

We all know that God is Love.....

Show love even when you know that person your trusted lied to you.

Show love when people talk negatively.

Show love when others judge you.

Show love when your house is not a home.

Show love when your children do something you never expected.

Show love when family disagrees with you.

Show love when you are not received by others.

Show love when you are going through  and  on one has a clue.

Show love when you may not want to.

Show love when you pray.

A Woman's Worth

Mirror

When you hear someone else's story it sounds so familiar you think it was yourself all over again.
It's amazing how life will mirror your situation through someone. I guess circumstances remain the same, it just afflicts different people at different times.

I do find it easier to give advice on situations that I have experienced. The passion of identifying the problem is so real. Once you can identify the source of a situation, God will give you the words to say for a good sound spiritual solution. We have to consult with God on these types of things. Going on your own merit is risky.

Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.~Proverbs 3:5

When we are witnessing, our thoughts should not be our own. Even with the empathy we feel and the proof of  that which we my see, it's vital that the Spirit of God's presence take over everything.

We are messengers of the gospel.
But as we were allowed of God to be put in trust with the gospel, even so we speak; not as pleasing men, but God, who tests our hearts.~ 1 Thessalonians 2:4

I Will Always Be Me

Have you every changed your thoughts or behavior due to association with someone else?  When I did not have Christ in my life , I allowed people to influence my thoughts and even how I worshipped God. When you can not identify the intentions of others you may fall victim to what you are told and mistakenly led the wrong way. That is why you must know God for yourself and keep His commandments according to His Word. Man will manipulate you to fit their own selfish needs. God does not instruct another to led you astray.

The thief comes not, but to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.~John 10:10

It's important to have a uniqueness about your presence and walk with confidence in the Spirit.
This goes for  your association for ALL mankind. (Believers/Unbelievers)

You may have a desire to fit in with a certain group, but instead of  trying so hard to fit in ....pray to God and see what they have to offer that fits your lifestyle. Be led by the Spirit.

You may loose a few folks when your decision may not sit well with their plans for you, but that's okay.  Practicing what's right has a tendency to "SEPARATE" one from another.

10 Things

I Can't Worry About You

Have you every been in  a situation and someone tells you that they have something to talk to you about?
You instantly know what it is...That's called discernment.

When you have dealt with a person for many years and they are not living for God. You really don't want to expect the worst, but you know the worst will come if they don't change their ways.
We love those that may not or may be apart of our lives. You want to see others succeed. You want to see others happy.

But really it comes down to not our wishes. It comes down to that individual  and  the choices they make for their own life.

Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.~James 4:10

We can spend too much time on something that will take us from God. Personal matters can clutter the mind and consume our thoughts.  The only way to overcome this is to Pray and be committed to what you ask GOD for.

I can't worry about you, but I will pray for you.

Easter Sunday

Easter means alot of things to different people. I know when I was a child we attended the Catholic Church and after service we had a fest at home waiting for us. Everyone would try to be seated at the dinning room table. Alot of laughter, stories and talking over one another. My grandparents got joy out of seeing everyone together at their home.

Today I have my own family and we still attend church and yes we will have a lovely dinner this evening. This Easter Sunday I will attend church with my two daughters and my grandson. I so look forward to being in the presence of a total experience. I pray to God that as we worship, praise and hear the word preached to us,  that THE WORD will lay on our hearts so we can restore in ourselves that once was dead.

We are so blessed that we have been forgiven for our sins. Jesus paid the ultimate price for our lives.

"For this reason the Father loves Me, because I lay down My life that I may take it again. "No one has taken it away from Me, but I lay it down on My own initiative. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again. This commandment I received from My Father."~John 10:17-18



Meaning of Forgiveness

We Fall Down

Love this song by Donnie McClurkin. It says alot about trouble and defeat. Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.~Romans 8:37. We don't let our circumstances keep us in a oppressed, depressed or suppressed mindset.

Prayer without ceasing. Is an ATTITUDE, an attitude of God-consciousness and God-surrender that we carry with us all the time. Every waking moment is to be lived in an awareness that God is with us engaged in our thoughts and actions.

So the next time" you fall down" what kind of action will you take? You can prepare your mind and spirit the next time adversity comes right now. We don't know the situation or when, but it does not stop the power of prayer. Protecting your self is loving yourself.

No more tears of worry. No more thoughts of "why me." No more feeling less than.

When we pray for the Spirit's help ... we will simply fall down at the Lord's feet in our weakness. There we will find the victory and power that comes from His love.~ Andrew Murry

Elijah

My first grandson was born yesterday his name is Elijah. What an overwhelming feeling to see a life come into this world! To witness the joy it brought into all our hearts; my daughter, my mother, her sister and myself. My daughter looked so beautiful, not ruffled at all just gorgeous.

 God allowed me to pray before, during and after the entire birthing process. There definitely was a calmness in the atmosphere. There was no distress nor medical emergency regarding mother and child.
What a blessing to experience the peace of God as Elijah came into this world.

I pray that the new mother learn who Jesus is to be able to bring up Elijah in a loving, healthy, nurturing and productive environment.
Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.~Proverbs 22:6

As the grandmother of Elijah, I pray to God that I can be a positive mentor to help him embrace God's Love. Through me God will give me what I need to be that strength for him. For now...I am the intercessor until he is able to cry out to God on his own.

I Am Not Afraid

There comes a time in our lives when change is necessary.  Having to make life choices can be overwhelming for anyone.

Overcoming an obstacle such as fear can be achieved by unwavering FAITH.

The Lord is my light and my salvation;
Whom shall I fear?
The Lord is the strength of my life;
Of whom shall I be afraid?
~Psalm 27:1

God is with us on this journey. We must believe in His Love and His promises for us.

 

                                                       “FAITH IS VICTORY”

My Family

Family is everything to me. Family will tell you like it is. Family will make you mad. Family will be there when others turn their back. The love you cannot ever replace and you can never live without.

If you have family embrace the love. We are all different and can be difficult, but you know that family is forever. Forever in love and support, no matter how mad you made someone in the past.

I have a mother who stood by me in countless ordeals and situations. She gives the kind of love to me where I truly Thank God to have her in my corner. Now don’t get me wrong I have been told off and blessed out by this same woman, but she never stopped being my mother.

As far as my children, they have always supported my progress in Jesus Christ. My biggest fans by far.”Mom I’m so proud of you.”  Are the most inspiring words I could ever hear. I can remember a time when I was a disappointment to my children. That was because I was selfish and did not have Jesus Christ in my life. Today we celebrate life. My oldest daughter will soon give birth to my first grandchild. My son is incarcerated and will be away from home for awhile, but with prayer nothing is impossible. My youngest teenage daughter is worker her way through high school and making plans for college.

I tell all my children as my mom told me, “Do your best, expect the best and don’t worry about the rest.”

But GOD has shown me….. You have to have a relationship with GOD. Surrender those things of the world to have eternal life with HIM.

I’ve had a good life and I live with no regrets. I am encouraged in the way that GOD leads me and I will never doubt my Father.

GOD lives through me to be able to bless those that Love me.

Good Advice

I see so many articles in social media giving relationship advice. Everyone is an expert. If you are single you are and expert. If you are married you are an expert. If you are divorced you are an expert. You first have to live a situation in order to be able to give advice. So with that said.

Singles: You are single for a reason. Your desperation will attract something you really are not looking for, so be confident in yourself and wait patiently. God will send the right person.

1 Corinthians 7:2~Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

Married: “What’s Love Got To Do With It?” EVERYTHING! Do you remember why you got married in the first place? Love, Honor and Obey. Put God first and treat your spouse with respect. Make sure your goals and dreams are one in the same. Support one another in whatever you do.

Genesis 2:22-24

²² Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. ^23.And Adam said:

“This is now bone of my bones
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called Woman,
Because she was taken out of Man.”

²⁴ Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Divorced: Forgive, Forgive, And Forgive. Whatever that person did to you to make you so bitter…let it go. Believe me they have moved on to the next best thing and not giving you a second thought. Know that you are worthy by God’s standard and forget the rest.

Colossians 3:13~Bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.

 Note:

v  Find peace with yourself and know what direction you are willing to take in a realistic relationship.

v  Throw away your list of expectations and just live your life to mirror what you may want in a mate.

v  Patience and kindness goes a long way in a relationship.

v  The way you start out in a relationship, is the way you should continue no matter what the situation

The Prayer For Protection

The Light of God surrounds me.
The Love of God enfolds me.
The Power of God protects me.
The Presence of God watches over me.
The Mind of God guides me.
The Life of God flows through me.
The Laws of God direct me.
The Power of God abides within me.
The Joy of God uplifts me.
The Strength of God renews me.
The Beauty of God inspires me.
Wherever I am, God is!

Helping Others

Over the years I have grown to know that whatever you set your mind to you can do it. At one time all I knew how to do was be a mother and a wife. When I became single again I had to find myself by letting go of the past and making plans for the future.  God became a source for all my needs. 

Today is wonderful. I help people, family and friends with advice and minister to them as often as I can. I can talk to them as God has taught me through His Word. The word is a powerful thing and this is a seed being planted every time we share with one another. You can’t beat that.

The young men in my Prison Ministry with include my son, we write often and my heart goes out to these young men because they are so young and have endured such adversity. I feel privileged to extend love to them. I talk to them as a Woman of God with motherly love.

This experience is a foundation for me as a Motivational Speaker.   Learning as you live is the best education of life you can have.  Being a true servant of God you must adhere to His Word and be faithful to all that he has you to do.

Romans 12:3-11
“For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith. For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function, so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another.

Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, let us prophesy in proportion to our faith; or ministry, let us use it in our ministering; he who teaches, in teaching; he who exhorts, in exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness.

Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good. Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another; not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord;” (NKJV)

About Me

Praise God. I was born in Florida but also had the privilege to live and grow up in places like California, New York and Ohio. My mother was a teenager when she gave birth to me. So my incredible, no nonsense, loving Grandparents raised me until my mother finished College.  My mother was a single parent who became a very successful, hard working woman.  She is my role model.  I have no brothers or sisters but my family of aunts, uncles and cousins provided a closeness that you would never know this about me. We support and encourage one another even when there is not a crisis. We definitely show Love.

Being a mother to three children has provided me with such insight of what Love really is all about.  I was married for twelve years to a Minister, which ended in divorce. I have two adult children and a teenager. Only my teenage daughter lives at home with me.  My children and my mother are the staples in my life. I’ve never remarried, but I am waiting on God to give me to my husband to be. Only God can do it….I cannot.

Two years ago I resigned my position in Human Resources to work on my Bible Studies full time to become a Pastor. With the help of God I will be spreading his Word as a Motivational Speaker.  I attend Calvary Christian Center in Ormond Beach, FL. and enrolled at Global University.  Now, I advise anyone to pray and know that your steps are directed by God before considering doing something like this. Know that you know. God is a way maker and a provider!

I've Made A Change

Ms. Carla's Connection has a new look!! Still real life inspirational reading going out, with much love to all my readers.
This is something that has been on my heart for awhile. It's a process when things are being birthed. Taking your time is essential and patience is the key. I Thank God for allowing me to reach people with the message of LOVE. Helping one another is a big deal and we must be available when God calls.
To all my new readers...Welcome.
God is the source of my inspiration, I am blessed to be able to share it with you.


Thank You,

Ms.Carla