Have you every been in a situation and someone tells you that they have something to talk to you about?
You instantly know what it is...That's called discernment.
When you have dealt with a person for many years and they are not living for God. You really don't want to expect the worst, but you know the worst will come if they don't change their ways.
We love those that may not or may be apart of our lives. You want to see others succeed. You want to see others happy.
But really it comes down to not our wishes. It comes down to that individual and the choices they make for their own life.
Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.~James 4:10
We can spend too much time on something that will take us from God. Personal matters can clutter the mind and consume our thoughts. The only way to overcome this is to Pray and be committed to what you ask GOD for.
I can't worry about you, but I will pray for you.