Good Advice

I see so many articles in social media giving relationship advice. Everyone is an expert. If you are single you are and expert. If you are married you are an expert. If you are divorced you are an expert. You first have to live a situation in order to be able to give advice. So with that said.

Singles: You are single for a reason. Your desperation will attract something you really are not looking for, so be confident in yourself and wait patiently. God will send the right person.

1 Corinthians 7:2~Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

Married: “What’s Love Got To Do With It?” EVERYTHING! Do you remember why you got married in the first place? Love, Honor and Obey. Put God first and treat your spouse with respect. Make sure your goals and dreams are one in the same. Support one another in whatever you do.

Genesis 2:22-24

²² Then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. ^23.And Adam said:

“This is now bone of my bones
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called Woman,
Because she was taken out of Man.”

²⁴ Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Divorced: Forgive, Forgive, And Forgive. Whatever that person did to you to make you so bitter…let it go. Believe me they have moved on to the next best thing and not giving you a second thought. Know that you are worthy by God’s standard and forget the rest.

Colossians 3:13~Bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.

 Note:

v  Find peace with yourself and know what direction you are willing to take in a realistic relationship.

v  Throw away your list of expectations and just live your life to mirror what you may want in a mate.

v  Patience and kindness goes a long way in a relationship.

v  The way you start out in a relationship, is the way you should continue no matter what the situation